Thursday, April 15, 2010

Fake it till you make it! ((Without lying))

The theory behind faking until you make it is pretty easy once you get the hang of how to actually achieve it. The problem is not faking it till you make it it’s what sometimes is associated with faking until you make it. With a lot of practice you can overcome the complications that some (and I say some) might experience with faking it until you make it. By overcoming any road blocks to faking it you will achieve all your desires multiplied.

Faking it until you make it concept is pretty basic. It means acting as though you have achieved your goal while you are still working on it. For instance, if your goal is to be happy you can smile all the time even when you are not happy. The Dr Oz show ran a story about faking it until you make it and described how some women actually got Botox to remove the frown lines until they were actually able to smile on their own consistently. Why faking it is an important step to accomplishing your goal. You need to feel like you’re making progress to be able to overcome any obstacles and achieve your actual goal. But it goes beyond that. Using the example of being happy as ones goal, you’ll find by forcing yourself to smile all the time you’ll actually begin to feel happier. You no longer will be forcing yourself; the smiling will become more natural.

You are already happy so this means nothing to you? Ok what if your goal wasn’t being happy? What if your goal was making or having more money? I heard a story once of a couple who told everyone they won the lottery, this included their family, friends and co workers. I don’t think they mentioned how much only that they had won. Then they began to act as if it were true. They spent money on stuff. They didn’t hold back. They carried themselves like millionaires. Eventually the faking it paid off – they the won the lottery. I’ve been told it’s a true story. The reality is simple faking it until you make it is an old concept that can be used across the board in your life. Simply act as if you have already achieved your goal.

So what’s this complication or problem you speak of that’s associated with faking it? Good question this problem will only affect those who are serious prosperity students or have a freak nature to tell the truth all the time. One of the fundamental principles in life is honesty. Being honest brings rewards unto itself. As a serious student of prosperity I would not be able to lie and say I won the lottery. I find that fallacy may withhold my own good. Like I said this complication is not going to affect everyone. Personally, I take telling the truth to another whole level than most. So I have to find ways of faking it without breaking my fundamental truth.

Can you fake it without lying? Yes. You can fake it without being dishonest it’s much harder than simply putting out in words that you have successfully achieved your goal. You must believe you have achieved your goal mentally and spiritually without speaking any untruths. Mentally it can be accomplished by holding the truth that you have accomplished your goal and the reward is on its way to you. You can continue to act as if the goal has been accomplished and this affords you the same faking until you make it mentality that everyone else has. You also can thank GOD (or the universe) for providing you with the outcome you seek. Thank God as if the outcome has been accomplished, by keeping the mental picture that the reward is on its way as you have already achieved your goal. The difficulty comes in when others want to know why you are on cloud nine and you can only talk in what appears to be circles to them. Instead of saying, “I won the lottery” even though you are acting as if you won the lottery by all appearances, you would have to say “good fortune has come my way. I’m celebrating how life always provides me with these types of rewards.” However, you can’t elaborate. As you are only celebrating the essence at that time, not the physical receipt of the cash. This is much harder to accomplish. Others will begin to become frustrated without you explaining the details of your good fortune. So it takes a strong will and desire to remain true to yourself and abundant in good fortune as it’s on its way to you!

Faking it until you make it is a very successful way to live life. You’ll find by employing the technique you’ll be on your way to accomplishing your goal. Acting as if your goal has been accomplished will bring about amazing results. And you can do all this while remaining true to yourself. Your desire will become your reality.

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